Sunday, August 5, 2012

Male Violence


On one occasion, Henry David Thoreau said, "Most people live dae their lives in quiet desperation." I think this phrase describes the way we live sigular, when the family, children, women, and men themselves, exercise violence as a form of relationship.

Speaking of male violence is clearly a risky item for women. It seems that women are allowed to have it, but not to search it, or, if he accepts a position usually seen radical gender assessments.

In this sense, it is important to have different elements to understand from a human perspective rather than gender. Male violence, or rather, the experience of male violence, is favored by the social vision in regard to be a man in a society.

Masculinity is clearly a learning process that has to be in correspondence with the society in which it is exercised. So, yes the man does not show their violence, then society, men, women bins as: "weak or mandilones".

At last we want to run out of violence, but when you are the judge, we laugh and even ashamed.

Obviously I think the exercise of violence gives status, power, imposing on the other hand, what men do not want to give up. But beyond what happens to social dictates and expectations in this regard, it is necessary recognize the individual needs of men not to use violence, mainly in the field of couples and families.

In recent days have proliferated a number of support groups for men, enabling them to understand, manage and provide a more constructive outlet for their violence. The consultation not only reach or children and women victims of violence, but men exercise it, because his experience is devastating ...

Refer to male violence and specifically to their experience, is a task that contains various angles, as well as violence has many faces, is the dark side of love.

Violent men suffering firsthand the ravages of their own violence. Some say, I do not want to hurt those I love, but suddenly, I feel a force that is beyond me. It is therefore important, and I think, very encouraging, these men come to review his life, his models of learning, ways of relating and the emotions that come into play in its expression.

Only recognition of personal work can help to rethink the very exercise of violence. In this sense, groups for violent men is a very wise choice because they share their experience with other men, their pains and frustrations, and then, a process of healing.

As mentioned earlier, male violence has many faces, and can cover different areas of life:

Physical violence, psychological and / or emotional.

Sexual Violence

May appear in the realm of private or public. on ways to stop speaking or expressing themselves. availability of sexuality and intimacy. in the acts and omissions. Every man and every woman will know in particular, that space is giving this connotation in their lives.

So violence is not a sin, it is only a distorted way of bringing relations, therefore, it is important that men recognize and work on your person, not to live, "a quiet desolation"

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